As the New York Islanders played the kind of third period only they can play – you know, the kind of third period that starts out with a three-goal lead and ends in a tie game – I felt a certain calmness. Maybe it’s because I was watching the game with friends. Maybe it’s because I’m waiting for my wife to go into labor and hockey isn’t as important as it ordinarily is. Maybe it’s because I saw it coming from a mile away. But I think it’s something different. Namely, I’m cool with losing this game because, quite honestly, wins and losses don’t matter right now.

Nobody is going to confuse the 2009-10 Islanders for a great team, a playoff team, or even a mediocre team. This is a young group who’s going to have plenty of tough times before things improve. Yes, it’s troubling that many of the key players in tonight’s loss also blew many third-period leads last season. At the same time, the Islanders’ young players need experience when an opposing team finds it second gear and makes an all-out push to preserve one (or two) points. That’s what the Islanders saw tonight.

Make no mistake about it, the Bruins thought they were going to get two easy points tonight. We’ve seen it a million times. Boston started its backup goalie and didn’t exactly play with a ton of urgency in the first two periods. Their fans seemed more preoccupied with the floundering Red Sox than anything the Bruins were doing. But when the Bruins needed to turn it on, they did. The Islanders, on the other hand, simply proved what we suspected all along – they aren’t at the Bruins’ level just yet.

It’s one thing to play well when your opponents are barely showing a pulse. It’s another to weather the storm when they’re playing at full capacity and you’ve got to take their best shots. Last year, the Islanders were in this position many times, but it happened mainly before injuries forced the team to truly rely on its youth. Now, the young players are the focal point of the team; they will learn more from this loss than they would have learned if they’d won.

So far, the Islanders have played three games and have forced overtime in each of these three games. These three games have been against the defending Stanley Cup champions, an improved Ottawa team and a team that finished one point shy of the President’s Trophy last year. This is nothing to be ashamed of. If anything, Islanders fans should be proud that their team is pushing elite teams to the brink. They should also be pleased that players like John Tavares and Matt Moulson are contributing right away. Sure, Dwayne Roloson hasn’t made a save in five shootout chances, but at least they’re getting that far. There’s still plenty to be excited about in Islander Country.